How To Feel Comfortable Around Your Partner’s Friends

You think the hard part is over — you’re with an amazing person, and you want to share every aspect of your life with them. Introducing them to your friends seems like the next logical step, but it’s harder than you’d imagine. You want to meet their friends, but you’re nervous. Here are a few tips on how to get comfortable around your partner’s friends.

Prep

Have your partner prep you, almost like a celebrity being prepped for an interview. It might seem silly, but getting talking points from your partner will help! Talk to your partner about their friend’s backgrounds and discuss things you all may have in common. Learn what you can so you can relate.

Double Date

If any of your partner’s friends are taken, try going out on a double date. You’ll be able to socialize one-on-one — this will help you feel more comfortable, and you may make a few friends, too. Be sure to have your partner filter out the couples with partners you may not get along with, it could end up being pretty awkward.

No Friendly Exes

If your partner is still friends with an ex, try to avoid hanging out. Even if your partner wants to introduce the two of you, avoid complication, awkward situations, and drama by just saying no. We’re sure your partner has many other uncomplicated friends to introduce you to.

Don’t Force It

Although you may want to spend time with your partner’s friends, or at least get to know some of them — don’t force it. Independence is important in a healthy relationship, so maintain that by hanging out with your own group of friends. In time you’ll meet your partner’s friends; it’s natural. Plan a casual get-together when you’re both free and bond over drinks, food, and board games.

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